Author: Roberta
In case you haven’t noticed, I haven’t written any posts for a while. Hubby and I went on a 33-day cruise to Hawaii and French Polynesia. Now we are home and in recovery mode. For two or three days, we had sea legs. So, what was this cruise like? Many of the 930 passengers were elderly and needed walkers, wheelchairs, canes, or another elderly person to hang onto. For example, people kept calling me “young lady.” I am 78 years old! Yes, I felt pretty smug. That all changed when I was leaving the ship for the last time. Based…
A loved one told me something I found hard to believe. I couldn’t accept it, so I researched it—lo and behold, it’s true. There is a very unusual human phenomenon in which some people relate to animals—not that they love or empathize with them—but that they actually believe they are animals! Which animals, you ask? Almost all of them. My loved one told me about a girl from our hometown who thinks she’s a cat. She initially attended one high school, but after being expelled due to her eccentric behavior, she started going to the high school I attended. My school…
The other day, Hubby went to get groceries and was back in the house in five minutes. When he started the car, it acted weird, so he came back in and called the dealer. After a short discussion, he made an appointment for me to take it in for service to have it checked out. “Maybe we just need a new battery!” I suggested. Never one to pay attention to my sage automobile advice, he said, “No, they’re not really that old. It must be something else. The engine turned over, and then several lights started flashing.” Hubby goes out…
I’ve noticed that some people are saying “Happy Christmas” lately rather than “Merry Christmas.” Is this more of the “woke” society, or is it only my non-American friends? I researched the origin of each of those greetings. The saying “Merry Christmas” is from the days of yore. (How many times do we get to say, yore?) Author Charles Dickens used that greeting in his classic, A Christmas Carol, in 1843. “Happy Christmas” was first used by British royalty, and that version of the greeting became traditional among the English. Some say the word “Happy” has a higher class connotation than”Merry,”…
This is a different type of Roberta Raves, as I would like your opinion on a few topics. Since retiring and spending a lot of time watching television, I’ve been reflecting on various societal issues. I’ve shared these thoughts with my husband, and while our perspectives often differ, they are not necessarily opposites. Please remember that my posts do not take a political stance. I recognize that social issues are complex and aim to spark discussion about them. I do not hold strong opinions; instead, I present them as food for thought and encourage thoughtful discussion. So here goes. Should…
Sometimes, a writer gets writer’s block. And sometimes, a raver runs out of raves. But I will do my best. I have a few raves to ramble about today, but they’re relatively minor. Every day, many of us ponder, “What should we have for dinner?” Why is this a struggle? I’m not sure. Perhaps it’s due to the overwhelming number of options. I remember discussing meal choices with a friend. He mentioned he was not in the mood for Chinese food because he had it yesterday. He then ruled out Mexican food, having had it a few days ago. This…
We seldom shop at brick-and-mortar stores anymore. Most of the stuff we buy now is delivered, and I love it. There is no need to dress up because no one sees me, and I don’t have to drive the car, fight for a parking space, and then try to remember where I parked it. So what’s the dilemma? The dilemma is what to do with all the packing material the stuff is delivered in. This really came to light a few days ago. Hubby ordered a new computer table, and it came in a big, flat cardboard box. The box…
Being surrounded by senior friends with differing degrees of hearing loss, I’ve had several requests to write a post about hearing. I’ve hesitated writing on this delicate subject because I didn’t want to appear insensitive to a disability which I (according to Hubby) am also beginning to suffer! Therefore, although I empathize with people who are hard of hearing, I must admit it can sometimes be annoying. Roberta Raves doesn’t usually rave about sensitive subjects like hearing loss, but being at a loss for a better topic, I thought I would give it a go. I hope you don’t find…
We all perform certain routines daily without even thinking about it. The other night, I was getting coffee ready for the next morning like a robot. I finally got Hubby trained to push the button to get the brew started in the morning. It’s a system that works for both of us. As I filled the water container and smelled the wonderful aroma of freshly ground coffee, I started to ponder the importance of coffee in our lives. We always have coffee in our home. It’s the one item we make sure to always have on hand – that and…
Hubby and I just got new recliners. Our shopping adventure for these new chairs was true to our historical tradition of shopping together. As always, Step One was convincing Hubby that we needed new recliners. Ours are ten years old, and although the manufacturer says they should last 20 years, that is if you never actually sit in them. After more research, I found that ten years is the average life expectancy of a recliner. Although a famous top brand, my ten-year-old leather recliner had a hole in the leather where my left elbow rests. Hubby asked me how that…